- Spiritually: Wake up and pray together for 10 minutes in the morning.
- Physically: Before she leaves for work, pull her close and hug her for 15 seconds.
- Emotionally: Ask your wife what’s happening in her friendships/relationships outside of your marriage. All it takes is for you to ask. She will do most of the talking, and she’ll feel very emotionally connected to you as she shares.
- Mentally: Oftentimes, wives simply need a mental break! Serve her by telling her to kick up her feet, and let her know that you have dinner covered.
Saturday, 26 October 2013
It is fascinating to know that the best way wives can be sexually fulfilled is when you understand that she constantly seek out ways of connecting to you-husband in more than one way. You don’t reap your harvest without sowing the seed. You can’t drive a car without filling it up with gas. You can’t eat a meal without first prepping and cooking the food. What makes you think you can enjoy mutually satisfying sex without first preparing and stimulating your partner?
I never want to lay a blanket of judgment over anyone, but—in general—this message is geared more toward husbands. (Wives, you are not off the hook! In our earlier post we have dealt with post how wives can love their husbands better).
Husbands, the first thing you need to know is that your wife is a highly emotionally being who wants you sexually. She really does! You are fully capable of fulfilling her sexual desires. The thing is that she also wants to connect with you emotionally, mentally and physically, which may seem like a lot of work to you. Each of these connections lay the groundwork for what happens in the bedroom. If your wife feels connected to you on each of these levels, your sexual relationship will become a multi-faceted, more meaningful aspect of your marriage. It will take off like a rocket to the sky.
Simply put: The best sex happens long before the clothes come off. For successful play, you have to work all day! Husbands, each day, make a goal to connect with your wife on every level. Here are some ideas:
Each of these connections set the tone for your sexual relationship. If your wife feels fulfilled and secure on each of these levels, there’s no telling what kind of woman you will have on your hands!
Bottom line: Sex is great. But sex is a million times better when you’re connected through several channels. Wives, if you notice your husband is making the effort to connect with you, don’t sit by idly! Let him know that you notice his efforts, and express your deep appreciation by verbally thanking him and returning the gesture. It will encourage him to keep the connections going! Husbands like your validation more than they let on (but more on that later).
If your marriage has gotten to the point where you hardly connect at all—on any level—now is the time to focus on connecting on one level. Remember: There’s no need to overwhelm yourself. It’s important to take life one day at a time. Shoot for the moon and you’ll land among the stars. Therefore, connecting with your spouse on more than one level will ignite your sexual relationship.
Do you agree that the sex is better when you’re connected in more ways than one?
Reference: www.womenshealthmag.com, http://hotholyhumorous.com/, http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/
Monday, 21 October 2013
A sweet libido-booster, although it’s 92 percent water, that remaining 8 percent of the content of the fruit is concentrated with vital nutrients for sexual health. Beneficial ingredients in watermelon and other fruits and vegetables are known as phytonutrients, naturally occurring compounds that are bioactive, or able to react with the human body to trigger healthy reactions, Patil said.
Watermelon has ingredients that deliver Viagra-like effects to the human body’s blood vessels and has the capability of increasing libido, it contains a phytonutrient called Citrulline, "We have known that watermelon has citrulline," says Bhimu Patil, PHD, director of the Fruit and Vegetable Improvement Center at Texas A&M University, College Station, this the body converts to arginine, an amino acid that boosts nitric oxide levels in the body, which relax blood vessels in the same way a medicine like Viagra does.
Some experts have called watermelon the new Viagra. Watermelon is low in calories and provides potassium and the phytonutrients lycopene and beta-carotene, in addition to the citrulline. “The citrulline-arginine relationship helps heart health, the immune system and may prove to be very helpful for those who suffer from obesity and type 2 diabetes,” said Patil. “Arginine boosts nitric oxide, which relaxes blood vessels, the same basic effect that Viagra has, to treat erectile dysfunction and maybe even prevent it.”
While there are many psychological and physiological problems that can cause impotence, extra nitric oxide could help those who need increased blood flow, which would also help treat angina, high blood pressure and other cardiovascular problems.
“Watermelon may not be as organ specific as Viagra,” Patil said, “but it’s a great way to relax blood vessels without any drug side-effects.”
Reference: http://www.webmd.com/, http://positivemed.com/, http://www.sciencedaily.com/
The small details of our lives are what really matter in marriage relationship. It is not the mansion, the cars, properties, the money in the bank, although these things create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot and will never give happiness in themselves, if they could the rich men and women would have had a fantastic marriage. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy- be more concern to meet your spouse’s need than yourself- for it is all about sacrifice and selflessness- true love.