The first baby step to achieving this experience is UNDERSTANDING YOUR SEXUALITY
Many women will tell me the reason they don't hug or
touch their husbands more is because their husband's mind goes directly to the
goal of having sex, and they feel "too tired to get into all of that.“
If you are going
to build a healthier family you must begin with building a healthier marriage.
If you are going
to build a healthier marriage, you must build healthier communication.
If you are going to build healthier communication as a
married couple, you must be able to talk about your sexual feelings with your
spouse.
If you are going
to talk about your feelings toward sex, you have to become aware of your
sexual/sensual self as a person.
This step is so vital, a lot of men or women think that their spouse should just know what goes on on their mind/ imagination or their body system but forgetting that their spouses are just mortal, they don't have that capacity, they can only know if it is shared or discussed. In the real world if you don't take time to understand your sexual life, how do you expect your spouse to understand? Take time to start talking about yourself to your spouse.....the next step we will be looking at is the power of imagination to our sex life...see you in my next post
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