But if
you follow our 10 lessons about the female orgasm, you’ll have the knowledge
you need to start studying (and finally seeing) it in the wild, and giving her a fulfilling sexual experience. So sit down,
listen up, and whip out your pencil. Class is in session.
DAY 1 LESSON:
Take
Her off the Clock
Just as
you're concerned about lasting longer, many women are so self-conscious about
taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The
solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-imaging
study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important
factor in bringing a woman to orgasm.
So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not—the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere?
So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not—the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere?
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Enjoying the moment without having to think about orgasm can be a very important tool to understanding how to get her there, it is all about "the act and not the art".
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